I’m 35 and have never had a girlfriend. What do I do?
The same goes for her telephone calls.
Cool means by refraining from acting irrational and being needy.
Even if those women don't want to date you, they probably have female friends.
You will find that the person you were when you met your girlfriend was an outgoing and independent person, don't lose that independence.
Let her talk and talk and talk, even if you don't like what she is saying.